881 - الصَّبرُ عَلى‏ سوءِ خُلُقِ الزَّوجِ وَالزَّوجَةِ

881. Tolerating Bad Character of a Spouse

2809.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : مَن صَبَرَ عَلى‏ سُوءِ خُلُقِ امرَأتِهِ واحتَسَبَهُ ، أعطاهُ اللَّهُ تعالى‏ بكُلِّ يَومٍ ولَيلةٍ يَصبِرُ علَيها مِنَ الثَّوابِ ما أعطى‏ أيُّوبَ عليه السلام عَلى‏ بَلائهِ ، وكانَ علَيها مِنَ الوِزْرِ في كُلِّ يَومٍ ولَيلةٍ مِثلُ رَمْلٍ عالِجٍ .¹

2809.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Whoever patiently tolerates and puts up with his wife's bad character [for the sake of Allah], for every day and night of his endurance Allah will grant him the same reward as that granted to Prophet Job (AS) for enduring his afflictions, and for every day and night of her evildoing she will bear a burden as heavy as the sandhills.' ²

2810.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : مَن صَبَرَتْ عَلى‏ سُوءِ خُلُقِ زَوجِها أعطاها مِثلَ (ثَوابِ) آسِيَةَ بنتِ مُزاحِمٍ .³

2810.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'She who patiently tolerates her husband's bad character will be rewarded equivalent to the reward granted to Asiya bint Muzahim [Pharaoh's wife].' ⁴

880 - ايذاء الزوجة

880. MISTREATING ONE'S WIFE

2806.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : إنّي لَأتَعَجَّبُ مِمَّن يَضرِبُ امرَأتَهُ وهُو بِالضَّربِ أولى‏ مِنها !¹

2806.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'I am truly astonished at the man who beats his wife when he is more deserving of the beating than her!' ²

2807.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : ألا وإنَّ اللَّهَ عَزَّوجلَّ ورَسُولَهُ بَرِيئانِ مِمَّن أضَرَّ بِامرَأةٍ حتّى‏ تَختَلِعَ مِنهُ .³

2807.The Prophet (SAWA) said, ' Beware that Allah the Glorious and Exalted and His Messenger dislike he who harms his wife to the extent that she asks for divorce without compensation!' ⁴

2808.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام - فِيما أوصَى ابنَهُ الحسنَ عليه السلام - : لايَكُنْ أهلُكَ أشقَى الخَلقِ بكَ .⁵

2808. Imam Ali (AS) in his advise to his son Hassan said, ' Your family should not be the most miserable people beside you.' ⁶