1891 - تَربِيَةُ الوَلَدِ

1891. UPBRINGING OF THE CHILD

6770.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله: أكرِموا أولادَكُم وأحسِنوا آدابَهُم .¹

6770.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Honour your children and perfect their manners.' ²

6771.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : أدِّبوا أولادَكُم على‏ ثَلاثِ خِصالٍ : حُبِّ نَبيِّكُم ، وحُبِّ أهلِ بَيتِهِ ، وقِراءةِ القرآنِ .³

6771.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Discipline your children with three features: the love of your Prophet (SAWA), the love of his Household, and the recitation of the Quran.' ⁴

6772.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : عَلِّموا أولادَكُم السِّباحَةَ والرِّمايَةَ .⁵

6772.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Teach your children swimming and archery.' ⁶

6773.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : الوَلَدُ سَيّدٌ سَبعَ سِنينَ ، وخادِمٌ سَبعَ سِنينَ، ووَزيرٌ سَبعَ سِنينَ، فإن رضِيتَ مُكانَفَتَهُ لإحدى‏ وعِشرينَ ، وإلّا فاضرِبْ على‏ كَتِفِهِ ، قد أعذَرتَ إلَى اللَّهِ فيهِ .⁷

6773.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'A child is a master for seven years, a servant for seven years, and a minister for seven years. If you are content with assisting him during these twenty one years [and have reached your aim of training him] then be it, or else strike him on his shoulder for you have completed your excuse to Allah in him.' ⁸

6774.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : مُرُوا أولادَكُم بطَلَبِ العِلمِ .⁹

6774.Imam Ali (AS) said, 'Command your children to acquire knowledge.' ¹⁰

6775.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام : عَلِّموا صِبيانَكُمُ الصَّلاةَ، وخُذوهُم بها إذا بَلَغوا الحُلمَ .¹¹

6775.Imam Ali (AS) said, 'Teach your children to pray, and take them to account for it when they reach puberty.' ¹²

6776.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : الغُلامُ يَلعَبُ سَبعَ سِنينَ ، ويَتَعَلَّمُ الكِتابَ سَبعَ سِنينَ ، ويَتَعَلَّمُ الحَلالَ والحَرامَ سَبعَ سِنينَ .¹³

6776.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, 'A child should play for seven years, learn literacy for seven years, and learn the permitted and the prohibited [i.e. jurisprudence] for seven years.' ¹⁴

(اُنظر) عنوان 210 «الشباب»؛ الأدب : باب 50، 51 .

(See also: YOUTH; DISCIPLINE: section 50, 51)

1890 - حَقُّ الوَلَدِ عَلَى الوالِدِ

1890. THE RIGHT OF THE CHILD UPON THE PARENT

6766.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : مِن حَقِّ الوَلَدِ على‏ والِدِهِ ثَلاثَةٌ : يُحَسِّنُ اسمَهُ ، ويُعَلِّمُهُ الكِتابَةَ ، ويُزَوِّجُهُ إذا بَلَغَ .¹

6766.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'Among the rights of a child upon his parent are three: to give him a good name, to teach him how to write, and to marry him off when he becomes mature.' ²

6767.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : حَقُّ الوَلَدِ على‏ والِدِهِ أنْ يُحَسِّنَ اسمَهُ ، ويُحَسِّنَ مَوضِعَهُ ، ويُحَسِّنَ أدَبَهُ .³

6767.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'The right of the child upon the parent is that he gives him a good name, disciplines him with good manners, and teaches him the Quran.' ⁴

6768.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام: تَجِبُ للوَلَدِ على‏ والِدِهِ ثَلاثُ خِصالٍ : اختِيارُهُ لِوالِدَتِهِ ، وتَحسينُ اسمِهِ ، والمُبالَغَةُ في تَأديبِهِ .⁵

6768.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, 'There are three things obligatory upon a father for his child: choose a good mother for him [before he is born], to give him a good name, and to go to lengths in disciplining him.' ⁶

6769.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام : بِرُّ الرّجُلِ بوَلَدِهِ ، بِرُّهُ بوالِدَيهِ .⁷

6769.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, 'The parent's goodness towards his child is [tantamount to] his goodness towards his own parents.' ⁸