1460 - ذمُّ التَّغايُرِ في غيرِ مَوضِعِ الغَيرةِ

1460. CENSURE OF BEING JEALOUS or Overpossessive Over One Another IN THE WRONG SITUATION

4927.سليمان عليه السلام لِابنِهِ : يا بُنَيّ لا تُكثِرِ الغَيرَةَ عَلى‏ أهلِكَ فَتُرمى‏ بِالسّوءِ مِن أجلِكَ وإن كانَت بَريئَةً .¹

4927. Prophet Solomon (AS) said to his son, 'O son, do not exceed your possessiveness over your family and you will accuse them of wrongdoing, even though they are innocent.' ²

4928.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : مِن الغَيرَةِ مايُحِبُّ اللَّهُ ، ومِنها ما يَكرَهُ اللَّهُ ، فأمّا مايُحِبُّ فالغَيرَةُ فِي الرِّيبةِ، وأمّا ما يَكرَهُ فالغَيرَةُ في غيرِ الرِّيبةِ .³

4928.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'There is possessiveness that Allah likes, and possessiveness that Allah dislikes. That which He likes is the possessiveness during doubt or misgiving [about one's wife], and the [over]possessiveness He dislikes is in a situation where there is no [reason to] doubt.' ⁴

4929.رسولُ اللَّهِ صلى اللَّه عليه وآله : غَيرَتانِ أحَدُهُما يُحِبُّهَا اللَّهُ وَالاُخرى‏ يُبغِضُهَا اللَّهُ : الغَيرَةُ مِنَ الرِّيبَةِ يُحِبُّهَا اللَّهُ وَالغَيرَةُ مِن غَيرِ الرِّيبَةِ يُبغِضُهَا اللَّهُ عَزَّوجَلَّ .⁵

4929.The Prophet (SAWA) said, 'There are two kinds of possessiveness in which Allah likes one of them and dislikes the other: Possessiveness over being accused, in which Allah likes, and possessiveness in not being accused, which Allah the Exalted dislikes.' ⁶

4930.الإمامُ عليٌّ عليه السلام - في وصيَّتِهِ لابنِهِ الحسنِ عليه السلام - : إيّاكَ والتَّغايُرَ في غيرِ مَوضِعِ الغَيرَةِ، فإنَّ ذلكَ يَدعُو الصَّحيحَةَ مِنهُنَّ إلَى السَّقَمِ ، ولكن أحكِمْ أمرَهُنَّ فإن رَأيتَ عَيباً فَعَجِّلِ النَّكيرَ علَى‏الكبيرِوالصغيرِ⁷.⁸

4930.Imam Ali (AS) said in his will to his son, al-Hasan (AS), 'Beware of being overpossessive [of your wife] in a situation that does not necessitate it, for verily that will lead a wife of sound character from among them to become weak.' ⁹

4931.الإمامُ الصّادقُ عليه السلام: لا غَيرَةَ في الحَلالِ... .¹⁰

4931.Imam al-Sadiq (AS) said, 'There is no jealous possessiveness [warranted] in what is lawful ...' ¹¹