Nahj al-Balagha Hadith n. 134

Selections from The Sayings and Preaching of Amir al-Muminin Ali ibn Abi Talib (Peace Be Upon Him) Including His Replies to Questions and Maxims Expressed for Various Purposes.
Translated by Sayyid Ali Reza

وَقَالَ (عليه ‏السلام):

Amir al-mu'minin, peace be upon him, said:

لَا يَكُونُ الصَّدِيقُ صَدِيقاً

A friend is not a friend

حَتَّى يَحْفَظَ أَخَاهُ فِى ثَلَاثٍ

unless he affords protection to his comrade on three occasions:

فِى نَكْبَتِهِ

in his adversity,

وَ غَيْبَتِهِ

in his absence

وَ وَفَاتِهِ .

and at his death.