Nahj al-Balagha Hadith n. 399

Selections from The Sayings and Preaching of Amir al-Muminin Ali ibn Abi Talib (Peace Be Upon Him) Including His Replies to Questions and Maxims Expressed for Various Purposes.
Translated by Sayyid Ali Reza

وَقَالَ (عليه ‏السلام):

Amir al-mu'minin, peace be upon him, said:

إِنَّ لِلْوَلَدِ عَلَى الْوَالِدِ حَقّاً،

The child has a right on the father

وَإِنَّ لِلْوَالِدِ عَلَى الْوَلَدِ حَقّاً:

while the father too has a right on the child.

فَحَقُّ الْوَالِدِ عَلَى الْوَلَدِ أَنْ يُطِيعَهُ فِي كُلِّ شَيْءٍ إِلاَّ فِي مَعْصِيَةِ اللهِ سُبْحَانَهُ،

The right of the father on the child is that the latter should obey the former in every matter save in committing sins of Allah, the Glorified,

وَحَقُّ الْوَلَدِ عَلَى الْوَالِدِ أَنْ يُحَسِّنَ اسْمَهُ وَيُحَسِّنَ أَدَبَهُ وَيُعَلِّمَهُ الْقُرْآنَ.

while the right of the child on the father is that he should give him a beautiful name, give him good training and teach him the Qur'an.