Nahj al-Balagha Hadith n. 451

Selections from The Sayings and Preaching of Amir al-Muminin Ali ibn Abi Talib (Peace Be Upon Him) Including His Replies to Questions and Maxims Expressed for Various Purposes.
Translated by Sayyid Ali Reza

وَقَالَ (عليه ‏السلام):

Amir al-mu'minin, peace be upon him, said:

زُهْدُكَ فِي رَاغِبٍ فِيكَ نُقْصَانُ حَظٍّ،

Your turning away from him who inclines towards you is a loss of your share of advantage

وَرَغْبَتُكَ فِي زَاهِدٍ فِيكَ ذُلُّ نَفْسٍ.

while your inclining towards him who turns away from you is humiliation for yourself.